Way out there

while we strive to follow the straight line, we are human and we we will err. But short of committing murder, pretty much everything else is forgivable. And sometimes when we fall, we fall pretty low. Some people will drink till they pass out only to wake up in half a blurr, see that they've losr pretty much everything from job to family life, home and everything else, the n go back to their drunken stupor until their frozen body is found next to a dumpster.
Booze, drugs, gambling. Some unfortunate souls are burduned with all three at once. Jackpot. Suicide is next. Unless the person wakes up long enough to come to the only applicable answer. The blame for all his (her) problems is usually a) the boss, b) the job, c) the spouse, d) the system, e) all of the above.
Or, finally, none of the above. Ray of light. The blame game is over. Time to take responsibility for one's actions
Having lost everything, all that is left is hope. And an upward upward battle. But there' a lot of help out there. It may even take a while before you find the one that's best suited for you, but once you've taken that first step, it becomes easier to take the next one towards rebuilding your home.